The Three Types of Language

Think back on the last three conversations you had with middle schoolers. How would you characterize those conversations? Were you relaying information, trying to persuade, or building personal relationships? In his book the “Contemplative Pastor,” Eugene Peterson notes that there are three types of language he uses in running a church: Descriptive Language - This language [...]

Don’t Be the Answer-Guy

Don’t you just love when middle schoolers ask deep questions? If one of my students asks a really good question during a youth group or small group function, my heart just lights up. Whether it has anything to do with the actual topic we’re talking about… well, I don’t really care! Whenever I see evidence of [...]

The Words You Speak (And Those You Don’t)

First of all, let me apologize for my hiatus from the blog. I really only like to write when I feel passionate about a particular topic, as opposed to simply writing my thoughts just because I feel like doing so. Lately my mind has been buzzing with new thoughts surrounding middle school ministry, so I’d [...]